Voin liioittelematta sanoa, että olen suunnitellut häitäni kohta kaksikymmentä vuotta.

Kaikki alkoi serkkuni kesähäistä vuonna 2001, kun olin kaksikymmentävuotias ja ensimmäistä kertaa häävieraana oman avecin kanssa. Aikaisemmin olin ollut häissä vain vanhempieni seurueessa innostuneena pikkutyttönä tai jurottavana teininä, mutta nyt nautin häätunnelmasta aivan uudella tavalla, kun rakkaus ei enää ollutkaan etäinen aikuisten juttu vaan jotain, mistä minulla oli jo omakohtaista kokemusta.

Silloin aloin toden teolla rakastaa häitä. Aloin myös tarkkailla hääparin ratkaisuja ja miettiä, mitkä heidän ideansa haluaisin kopioida omiin häihini.

En onneksi osannut tuolloin edes kuvitella, miten pitkään saisin omia häitäni odottaa.

Muutamaa vuotta myöhemmin alkoi hääkutsujen tulva. Neljä kouluaikaista ystävääni vietti häitään saman vuoden aikana, ja siitä lähtien jokaisen kesän suunnitelmat rakennettiin varaamalla ensin kalenterista tarvittavat viikonloput ystävien häille. Yksi parhaista ystävistäni pyysi minua kaasoksi, ja välillä autoin myös sellaisten häiden järjestelyissä, joissa en ollut virallisesti kaason roolissa.

Minua ympäröivä jatkuva häähumu oli katkeransuloista. Niin paljon kuin ystävieni häistä nautinkin, surin samalla sitä, ettei oma vuoroni ollut näköpiirissä. Olin jumissa huonossa parisuhteessa, eivätkä mitkään merkit viitanneet siihen, että suhde olisi johtamassa avioliittoon.

Käänsin tunteeni päättäväisesti positiivisen puolelle jatkamalla häitteni suunnittelemista. Lista mielessäni kasvoi vuosi vuodelta: yksissä häissä oli ylivertainen kakku, toisissa hauskimmat näkemäni ohjelmanumerot. Päätin ajatella, että olisi hauskempaa mennä naimisiin ystäväporukan viimeisten joukossa. Sen ansiosta saisin nauttia häiden suunnittelusta pidempään, kerätä kaikki parhaat ideat ja yhdistellä niistä unelmieni häät.

Viisi vuotta sitten tapasin viimein miehen, jonka kanssa haluan viettää loppuelämäni ja joka tuntee samoin minua kohtaan. Odotin kiihkeästi kosintaa – enkä joutunut pettymään. Rakkaani kosi alle vuoden seurustelun jälkeen.

Käytännön syistä lykkäsimme kuitenkin häitämme edelleen. Asuimme ulkomailla mutta halusimme juhlia Suomessa. Kaiken odotuksen jälkeen minulle oli tärkeää saada nautiskella hääjärjestelyistä, eikä häiden järjestäminen etänä sähköpostitse monen tunnin aikaeron takaa kuulostanut alkuunkaan nautinnolliselta. Halusin jakaa iloni äitini ja vanhojen ystävieni kanssa, päästä maistelemaan kakkuja ja nuuhkimaan kukkia. Minun toiveestani päätimme mennä naimisiin vasta, kun asuisimme taas synnyinmaassamme. Paluumuuttomme kuitenkin lykkääntyi lykkääntymistään, ja sen myötä häätkin siirtyivät aina vain kauemmas tulevaisuuteen.

Nyt on vihdoinkin häiden aika. Asumme taas Suomessa ja menemme naimisiin heinäkuussa 2020. Kuten arvata saattaa, olen todella innoissani, ja siitä ylitsevuotavasta innostuksesta syntyi myös ajatus tästä blogista. On ihanaa saada jakaa blogin kautta ajatuksiani aiheesta, joka piristää tällä hetkellä jokaista päivääni ja tuo iloa sateen synkistämään arkeen.

Tervetuloa nautiskelemaan kanssani pitkään hellityn unelman toteutumisesta <3

 

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